Body Language To Attract Women

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By Curt Cassanova

According to sociologists, we use our bodies to express our feelings in about 90% of our communication.


Would you be interested in finding out how to use one of the most effective weapons you possess to tell a woman you are attracted to her without even saying a word? It’s called “body language,” and it’s something that we can exhibit but just don’t know how to or are not aware of when we communicate. Not knowing how to get in touch with your body and express yourself by gestures implies that you are wasting one of the most effective tools you have to meet more women and have more dates. A deaf guy who knows how to use “body language to attract women” may even stand a better chance than you in catching the attention of a beautiful girl.

The following are ways on how to use Body Language to Attract Women:

Do Away With Insecure Gestures


Start by making it a habit to go out for beer and just sit and enjoy watching people come and go. Be keen on how these men and women use their bodies to communicate with one another. You will notice their movements and gestures and see how they connect to their personality. You will quickly spot gestures such as fidgeting with their smokes or drink or napkin, sitting hunched on the stool at the bar area, and turning their heads around the bar as if they are waiting for someone. These body movements show lack of self-confidence or insecurity. When you see these guys exhibiting these actions think about how they would appear to women. What impression do you think these guys communicate to women who have not met them before? Do you think these are the kind of men that a woman would be interested in? Being able to observe these awkward gestures allows you to be more aware of yourself and how your body talks.

Create A Strong Presence


When you are out in bars or places where men and women normally go to meet observe how some men just naturally occupy more space around them than others? They just seem as if they are at home or own the place, perhaps you have seen them and thought to yourself, “man is he really full of himself. They don’t move or adjust their position when people want to pass, no they protect their space. These types of guys are using their body language to demonstrate they are confident in themselves and dominate in order to attract women. These men move in perfect timing, unhurried and look very confident with themselves. Pick out a few guys who act similarly and observe how they make these suave gestures. When you go out and find yourself in a similar situation, observe this scene and study and think how you are going to copy their demeanor and the characteristics of their body language. Women are really attracted to this type of body language

Feel Comfortable In Her Space

Being able to make an eye contact with a lady means you are ready to talk to her. Once you start conversing with her, don’t be hesitant to enter her personal space, which means being close enough to let her sense that you feel comfortable being near her. Let a few moment pass and then create an instance that gives you a reason to physically touch her. With your playful touches, you get the chance to demonstrate body language. It can be as simple and flirty as touching her hair or brushing against her body when you’re in a crowded place which would tell her you like her and feel comfortable in her space. As some women might feel awkward if you go too fast, play off her and just play it cool. Be creative and provoke her to touch you first. It will warm things up if you are able to come up with a reason to hold one of her personal items such as purse or jacket. Plan and take action. Go out and practice your body language to draw women to you. Stories about gestures and what they mean can help but in a real situation, you have to apply what you have learned. Nothing beats practicing the things you read and watch and making them part of a real-life experience. As you go about practicing body language with women and checking how they respond to your actions, you will be more confident and eventually be spontaneous with your gestures. Soon you will be attracting more women than you can handle.

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